Showing posts with label toxic behaviour. Show all posts
Showing posts with label toxic behaviour. Show all posts

Sunday, July 31, 2016

Protection against Psychic attack or Black Magicmantra - Alakh Baba Siri Chand

Alakh Baba Siri Chand Di Rakh
(ALAK, BABA SIRI CHAND, DERAK)


Translation:

This mantra calls upon the help of Baba Siri Chandh, who was the son of Guru Nanak, the first Sikh Guru. 

He was sent by his father to teach the basic tenets of Sikhism to the yogis in the Himalayas.

This mantra is to be chanted only once per day. If under psychic attack, this mantra will reflect the energy back.

 But no more!  If you do it more, it is said that it could backfire!?

Please remember that it is not advisable to wish anyone pain for what they are causing you or wish for bad energy that you are getting to be sent back to them. 

We can not use his energy to hurt other people even if wethink they are really bad. It is best to visualize all the bad energy to dissipate or to disappear into space. 

Baba Siri Chand is there to protect you but not to help you harm other people with your own negative thoughts. 

You can develop a very positive relationship with him if your own intentions are pure.

Saturday, April 4, 2015

TOXIC BEHAVIOURS

Toxic behaviors pushes people away!!!
  1. Being envious of everyone else.
  2. Taking everything too personally.
  3. Acting like you’re always a victim.
  4. Hoarding pain and loss.
  5. Obsessive negative thinking.
  6. Lack of emotional self-control.
  7. Making superficial judgments about others.
  8. Cruelty (or lacking empathy and compassion).
  9. Cheating and cutting moral corners simply because you can.
  10. Hiding your truth.
  11. Needing constant validation.
  12. Being a stubborn perfectionist. 

How to Identify Toxic Behavior

  1. Attempting to intimidate you by yelling or becoming violent in any manner (slamming a door is a violent act).
  2. Consistently talking down at you, sending the message that he or she is just plain better than you.
  3. Regularly telling you what he or she thinks is wrong with you.
  4. Slandering others behind their backs i.e. trying to engage you in gossip that is hurtful to others.
  5. Spending the bulk of your conversations complaining about his or her life and others.
  6. Discouraging you from pursuing your interests and dreams when you are capable of doing so without hurting or burdening others.
  7. Attempting to take advantage of your kindness and resources, and trying to make you feel guilty if you don't do what he or she wants.
I have learned a lot about toxic relationships and how to deal with it by reading DoreenVirtue's book  
Assertiveness for Earth Angels: How to Be Loving Instead of "Too Nice"